I don't get the rules. I mean, i get them, but i don't. o.O.

Ok, let me try to explain. I understand it from both point of views.

On one side, if you're not over your ex, then none of your friends should be after them. Unless you want them to be happy. Well, if you're not over your ex, but your friend likes them, and they like your friend, and you want them to be happy, then... yah, i guess its ok. But if they really are your friend, they probably won't go out with your ex, unless you're not really friend friends. Ya know?

But if you are over your ex, and you're friend does like them and you're super duper ok with up and you want both of them to be happy, well, then, that's ok too.

But if you want your friend to be happy, and your ex to miserable, and your ex and your friend like each other, well, where does that get you? Whose feelings do you care about most? Yours, where you want your ex to be completely miserable, or your friends, who has feelings for your ex?

*sigh*

relationships... no wonder i haven't been in one yet. they're too confusing.

But... things can change.

things change all the time....